Father disowned me and Fathers day is coming up...?

Are you an only child ? If not, are your siblings as perfect as he wants them to be ? We try to teach our kids values, and that's good. It sounds like he's too wrapped up in material things. If they mean more to him, than his own daughter, too bad for him, That's not your fault. Let his special days go by, you don't need to be rediculed any more than you already have. When you see your Mom, just tell her, the ball's in his court. He's your father, doesn't mean you have to kiss his Butt. He's so worried about monetary things, I'm surprised he hasn't brought you in front of Judge Judy , to get his losses back.